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                       Modern technology 's effects on personal relationships


Nowaday, modern technology play an important role in our life which no one can deny . We can find its effects on every field of life including advantages and disadvantages . Clearly ,our personal relationships are also influent more and more.

On the one hand,we receive a lot of benefit from technology in keeping and building our personal relationship. Fristly, thanks to technology ,we can keep in touch with others easilier and more regularly . For example , in the past ,it was time when telephones didn't exist ,if we want to know how someone is ,we must write letters and wait many days for the answers, sometimes ,they may be lost . In contrast ,now almost everyone has a cellphone and every house has a telephone ,If we want to talk to someone ,just make a call ,we will hear their voice as if they sit beside us . Secondly, with the development of technology ,we can make friends with people from every where notonly in our own country but also in the world . For instance ,with a computer is accessed to internet , a Vietnamese can eventually make friend with a American through facebook ,yahoo or gmail. Another example is that people who are born in the same town can meet easily in internet community and seek acquaintance with each other ,chat and talk . Moder technology helps human notonly build relationships but also remain them better. Thanks to it ,we can find sympathy among people ,which make us closer regardless of where and who we are.

On the other hand ,modern technology also bring us some disadvantages on our personal relationships ,if we depend on it too much . The first point is that if we take advantages strongly of technology . Gradually , our relationships will become less and less profound , close relationships and normal relationships are not very much different . For example, alot of people use facebook to make friends and keep in touch with each other . In her or his birthday , he or she receive many wishes like "happy birthday" from his or her friend on facebook thanks to reminder of facebook 's function . Therefore we don't need to remember any more ,but it makes close friends and stranger are the same ,which makes our relationships aren't as deep as before. Besides ,because of modern technology sometimes we may feel our personal lifes are invaded . For instance , sometimes ,we are tired and want to relax and be alone ,but cellphones can't help ringing ,which bother us so much and really annoyed . The disadvantages of modern technology are things we can foresee so be sure that we control these gadgets and not other way around .

Modern technology has both good and bad effects on our personal relationships . However ,knowning how to balance and make relationships better is intelligent users.

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                                       Does sadness run in family?

Sadnenss and happiness are two totally diffrent feelings which people all have . They help balance our life and each person has a diffrent taste about what is happiness or what is sadness? They are affected by many things from enviroment and ourselfe . Evently , our gene which we inherit from our previous generation can influent our thingking and feeling about happiness and unhappiness. However , I don't think sadness runs in family.


Firstly , people are born with peacefulness but happiness or sadness . Gradually , when they grow up, relationships between family , friends and works affect to their feelings , make them happy or sad . For example, a kid is raised in a normal happy family , receive love from others members ,they don't need to be sad . Moreover ,we feel happy or sam by ourself . Although there are a lot of things influent on our emotion ,we ourself control how we feel . Futhermore ,if sadness runs in family ,why 's not happiness ? In spite of the fact that they are distinct feelings ,they have close relationship . Therefore , if we inherit sadness , so do happiness . Besides, some people said that when women are pregrant ,if they are sad or depressed ,their children can be a sad ones when they are born ,which is the example of sadness runs in family . However , it is not true because those women are not sad deeply inside ,it is their children that make them feel some kinds of responsibility of a new life ,which affect their children but gene


Sadness and happiness are two distinct feelings that ,coexisting ,rise and fall independently . We ourself decide whether we are happiness or not . Therefore ,if you are depressed ,don't put it all on gene , maybe because you don't know how to be happy .